14 March 2024
I absolutely adore kids. And not
just my own.
There is just something so
completely and utterly magical about little people, that I cannot help but be
drawn to them and love them. In addition, I’m not selective of their ages.
Babies, toddlers, small kids, bigger kids, and even those grumpy and
attitude-filled teenagers. I simply always find a way to connect with them,
draw them in and have a conversation with them. I think it’s about gaging where
they’re at in their growing-up journey, tapping into that and embracing what’s
currently happening to them. I can chat to even the most off-the-wall
hyperactive kid, shy little dreamers, as well as sully teenagers. They would of
course never admit it, but they actually like to be heard and to feel as though
their opinion counts. It’s easy to draw them out. Especially if you use their
lingo (but not overly so, nothing more cringe than an adult trying to say sick
things, like sick), appear to be indifferent and don’t make too much eye
contact. That’s with the teenagers of course. Little kids want your full on
attention focused on them.
But without a doubt, one of the
greatest gifts of children (spanning the whole variety of ages), is their take
on life. The way they see and perceive the world around them. Their
interpretation of so much that we take for granted is disarmingly refreshing.
As adults we can become so jaded and often words, sayings and experiences lose
their impact. We become numb to it. It’s just part of life. Been there, done
that, seen so much. In addition, as adults we don’t questions as many things as
we probably should. We just accept. Like why does your nose run, when it can’t
do so at all. Its doesn’t have feet. And speaking of feet, how come we have fingertips
but not toe tips?
Now with little people,
everything is a marvel. And the world is a giant place filled with endless
opportunities and experiences. Just waiting to be discovered. Just imagine how
incredibly exciting that must be? Just close your eyes and ears and imagine discovering something for the first time. It must be incredible!
A major upside of little kids and
their perception of the world, is the apt way they have of describing things or
summarising something that’s happened. Extremely refreshing and usually very
funny too. Truly unique.
My brother used to live in Joburg
for many years, yet he always travelled as a musician. And when he came to the
Cape, he used to stay with us. We loved it. He never wanted one of the kids’
rooms. Instead he always opted for the couch as he was a night owl and would
enjoy falling asleep with the TV on. So he was always at the centre of our family life.
Albert recalls visiting one time,
when Amber was about six or seven years old. A touring musician is invariably
packing a lot of instruments at any given time. And any visit from Al was no
exception. This time, Amber showed particular interest in his numerous guitar cases
and asked him to show her what was inside them. He dutifully started off with some
of his electric guitars. She appropriately oohed and aahed. Full of knowledge
of what they would be used for. After all, she’d seen him performing countless times.
And then he opened up and revealed
an acoustic guitar. And she bubbled with excitement, eager to show off her knowledge.
“Ooooohhh! I know that one. You use it to make Afrikaans music.”
Albert was floored and no doubt tickled
pink, bursting out with laughter. Funny enough he only told me the story last week
and I guffawed too. Such an entertaining description of what acoustic guitars
are exclusively used for.
I rest my case. Kids are highly
entertaining. In addition, I do understand where she was coming from. Her
logic was rather appropriate. Though the Afrikaans music genre has grown in
leaps and bounds, there is still a large portion of it, which is performed with
a, shall we say, “softer” hand.
So sweet! Clever Gal, out Amber Berry 💜
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ReplyDeleteThat is fabulous!!! I love it!!
ReplyDeleteI wonder where that perception came from!
Always lovely to hear a story like that so many years later.
What a beautiful memory turned into such a wonderful perception and story!
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