The wife is always the last person to find out
3 November 2012
A
few years ago, when my Grantie still worked in Stellenbosch, he left for work
very early, as he always did. The kids were still quite little.
Luke in Beaumont, Amber in Happy Days and Cole still home with me. And
while the kids were getting ready for school in the morning, I decided to
quickly put a load of washing in the machine. I worked my way through the
laundry basket, separating whites from colours, as one always does. I
pulled out one of Grant’s crumpled white work shirts, and when I shook it out,
to add it to the white pile, the folds revealed…..a lacy black g-string pair of
panties. A pair of panties that most definitely did not belong to
me. I lowered myself down onto the loo
seat and sat there dumbfounded. Speechless. My ears were ringing
and zinging and I felt completely hollow on the inside. My legs were
shaking, as were my hands. And to convince myself that my eyes were not
deceiving me, I leaned forward and picked up the offending panties. How
was this possible? Why didn’t I see the signs? Could I be this
foolish? What if everyone knows and I’m a laughing stock? People
are surely snickering behind my back. It could only be someone at
work. And they’re all always so nice to me whenever I pop in to
them. Was every single cliché true? Was the wife always the last
person to know?
I
got up on shaky legs, dimly aware of the kids around me. I slowly walked
to the study, firmly closed the door behind me and phoned my man. On his
cheery “Hello”, all I could manage was a “Is there something you want to tell
me?”. To which he replied “no”. Speaking calmly, clearly and with
impeccable diction, lest he misunderstand the question or the seriousness
behind it, I repeated my question once more, “Is there something you want to
tell me?”. And once again I got a firm “no”, followed shortly thereafter
by a “why?”. I sat down on a chair in the study as my legs were still
unsteady. And deciding to give
him ample time and yet another opportunity to confess, I repeated my question
again. If possible, speaking even
slower, enunciating my words with care.
This time, Grant had a little giggle in his voice and once again replied
“No. Why?”. I explained to him what happened. How I was sorting out the washing and the
panties were folded into his work shirt.
He giggled some more and said he had no idea where they came from. And to be honest, he didn’t sound remorseful
of concerned in the slightest. Quite
bashful and unashamed, to be honest. He
asked if they weren’t perhaps mine? I
said no and put the phone down.
Absolutely paralysed. And within
about 3 seconds of putting the phone down, it rang again. Grant was on the other end of the line, and
he thought he had a very reasonable explanation for the offending pair of
panties. Had I not had swimming lessons
with Cole the previous day? And don’t I
actually get into the pool with Cole, necessitating the need to get dressed and
undressed? Surely, when Cole and I got
dressed again, I accidently picked up another mother’s pair of panties and
stuffed them into our swimming bag. Now
if possible, this very “logical” explanation worried me even more. Merely a minute has passed since our very
first conversation had started. How was
it even possible for Grant to think so fast and on his feet so quickly? This little excuse of his was far too
convenient. I assured him that this was
not possible and ended the conversation.
I walked into the kitchen, got a pair of kitchen tongs, walked to the
bathroom, picked the panties up with the tongs and inspected them closer. They were very lace and very black. Skimpy beyond belief. In fact, they looked pretty trashy and cheap
to me and were sure to belong to a brazen hussy and a tart. The question though, was whether this was a
serious affair. Did she blatantly throw
herself at my man? Or was this even
worse – true love? My world had come to
an end. I dropped the panties again and
this time, I picked up Grant’s work shirt.
I scanned the collar for tell-tale lipstick marks. Checked his pants pockets. No joy.
No clues. No nothing.
By this stage Grant phoned me again, with yet
another very “plausible” excuse all lined up.
Still he stuck to his guns. He’d
never seen these supposed panties. He
was not having an affair. No, it was not
someone from work. I didn’t feel like
talking to him. I switched on to
autopilot and went about getting the kids ready for school. Grant phoned again and I never even bothered
answering. It would be
counter-productive. He claimed innocence
yet I could not explain the presence of the offensive pair of tarty panties on
my bathroom floor. They surely didn’t
simply walk into my home on their own?
I gave up on the washing and took the kids to
school. And when I was home once more, I
called my domestic worker, Monica, over.
Did she perhaps have a clue? Oh,
yes she said, they came from behind Amber’s bed. And just like that the pieces of the puzzle
all fell into place. Had my mom not
spent a night and slept in Amber’s bed?
Clearly they were her panties, and they must have fallen behind the bed,
either when she got dressed, undressed or was busy with her bags. I had a little giggle of relief and did a
small victory dance.
I immediately phoned my mom and asked her if
she was perhaps missing a pair of black panties. Yes, indeed she was. Why do I ask?
I told her then what had happened.
And the two of us laughed like drains.
It was very funny indeed. Joyful
relief in my laughter for sure.
Very sheepishly I phoned my Grantie and
explained the story to him. He did gloat
quite a bit, truth be told. But that’s
okay. I can live with it. I had to eat a bit of humble pie and
apologised some more. And that night for
supper, I made him one of his favourite meals.
My non-cheating husband deserved it.
And all I can say is “Nice one, Mommy! I dig the panties. Such style.
Such class. Such trashy blackness. You go girl!”.
Exhibit A
The tools of the trade
Ek lag my 'n papie!
ReplyDeleteYou even had me a little tense there for a minute! LOL - Great story Helene and an even better ending! x
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