Oh pretty please will you help me?
22 November 2012
Okay, so I’m virtually on my
knees here, and I’m not joking. Picture
it. Kneeling in front of my computer,
typing away. It’s bloody awkward and
hell on knees on the hard tiled floor.
But the reason for my begging is this: I thought a bit to myself. Is it not true that I have a whole bunch of people who read my blog daily? True, it still amazes me, but the stats prove this point. It is indeed a fact, hard thought I might find wrapping my head around it. I have lots of positive feedback, encouragement and expressions of appreciation. And for those I am deeply grateful. They motivate me, inspire me and keep me going. Funny how even the smallest word of support or encouragement fills me with enthusiasm and oomph. I suspect words of kindness, heartfelt and sincerely expressed often have this outcome. And I am so very, very grateful for what all of you give back to me.
However, I would very badly like
to grow my blog. I would like to
increase my daily views and “fan base” if that is the correct word? I am not being big headed here and getting
ahead of myself. It is not as if I think
I’m sooooo good and worthy of this. This
is merely a humble wish of hope. A goal
I have set myself. From what I can make
out from the feedback I’m getting, is that the blog brightens people’s
day. That they look forward to it
daily. Indeed many people start their
day, by reading it. It gives them something
to think about and quite often it makes them laugh. It is perhaps a brief reprieve from their own
lives and a little escape from reality. For
many South Africans around the world, who I think make up the bulk of my
foreign views, it is perhaps a little taste of home too. Perhaps they identify with some of the things
I write about.
And maybe therein lies the
“magic” of “From the birds and the bees, to family trees”. I write with honesty and humour about very
average, very ordinary things. Not the
big stuff and the highlights of life.
More the mundane – things that happen to all of us. You know, the small print, not the bold
headlines. Stuff we can all relate
to. Stuff that’s happened to most of
us. I don’t think my viewpoints are
particularly unique or original. Maybe
I’m a bit quirky and have a different take on things. Maybe not so much. I am too close to it to be objective and be
able to tell. A huge part of me still
marvels at the fact that others read the blog.
It is a rather surreal feeling. I
think there is a partly voyeuristic feel to it too. An intimate and in detail little daily slice
of someone else’s life – in this case mine.
And perhaps by reading a blog, others can look at the daily entries and
either think “thank heavens, not for me”, or “glad that’s not me”, or
alternatively “what fun!”.
For me, when I’m writing it is as
if I’m having a conversation with all of you.
As if I know each and every person, well personally. It’s also a bit like talking out loud to the
voices in my head. We have whole
conversations together. You have come to
know me better. And through your feedback,
I have come to know you better. I’m but
a simple girl with simple tastes. I love
my family, friends, laughing, living, life and love. Not necessarily in that order. Perhaps I am quite honest. Voicing feelings that others may not give
utterance too. Maybe something that they
realise that they perhaps feel the same about, yet have never voiced out loud.
But enough about me and why I do
it. And back to the begging on the knee
thing. I urge you, nay beg you, to
please spread the word for me. There is
no financial gain in this. Maybe one day
in the hopefully not too distant future there will be. Still that is not why I do this. I would like more to read. If you know anyone who you think might enjoy
it, tell them too. But, and this is a
big but, only if you think the blog is deserving and worthy of it. If you know anyone in the magazine or
publishing world send it to them too.
Who knows. Maybe someone,
somewhere will like what they see, read and feel after coming on a blog journey
with me. We are not bound by borderlines
– so go forth. It doesn’t matter who you
are or where you are.
You can help me.
I know Maggie and Al and first read your blog on his link. I adore it! Come from the same sort of extended crazy family and can relate to your stories of family holidays. Please keep it flowing!
ReplyDeleteAg Cecile, so happy that you enjoy Helene's blog too. Big families are the best.
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