I'm so tired of waking up for school and I'm not even the one going!
30 April 2024
Oh my hat! Never has a statement
been more true.
I remember my kids’ school days
with vivid clarity. But here’s the funny thing. I never really minded it at
all. Strange but true.
Waking up early, chasing kids
around the house to get ready, ensuring they’ve had breakfast, nagging them to
brush their teeth, reminding them to take everything needed for every school
day with them, driving to and from school, sport and extra murals, and even
packing school lunches. I just had to do it. Also, I could make things
difficult for myself by hating the task and being grumpy about it. Bemoaning my
fate. But surely my mood would affect theirs? And I’d end up paying the price
for that even more by having to contend with miserable kids. And I always knew
that it was a slice of time. And that in hindsight it would seem like it flew
by.
And funny enough, but it did.
One of those
the-days-are-long-but-the-years-are-short kinda things.
Now this doesn’t mean that
internally I didn’t wish that I could actually sleep a little bit longer. Or
avoid the morning chaos and rush. I even tried to find ways to alleviate this.
By packing as much of the lunches as I could, the night before a school day. By
trying my very best to ensure that the kids had everything they needed for the
following school day. Their were uniforms at the ready. Sport’s clothes and the
necessary assortment of cricket bats, hockey sticks, shin pads, gum guards,
knee guards for dancing, musical instruments and anything else the following
day entailed locked, loaded and ready to unleash in the morning.
I think it all boils down to
attitude. And embracing where you’re at. Life is kind of like the ocean. It
comes at you in steady waves. With the occasional spring tide and storm thrown
in for good measure. And perhaps a bit of variety.
And isn’t it just so sweet what
treasures you find, after a particularly stormy patch? Whether it be whilst
trawling for sea glass along the beach.
Or even more importantly in life.
Ahh Helene, attitude is sooo important.
ReplyDeleteI love the comparison of the tide. It certainly is.
Your children were very lucky!