tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098604292442392707.post1342616157034129999..comments2024-03-28T13:54:17.215+02:00Comments on From the birds and the bees, to family trees.: A positive birthFrom the birds and the bees to family treeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14300555924899491187noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098604292442392707.post-47292002049690689002013-02-27T20:50:29.988+02:002013-02-27T20:50:29.988+02:00I have 2 wonderfully amazing children and with my ...I have 2 wonderfully amazing children and with my first, a son, I had a natural birth and 2nd one was a caeser due to her being breech. I was lucky that with my natural birth I only had 4 hours labour but included an episeotomy. I then had a D&C within the hour as my placenta would not detatch. Yet the next morning (Birth was 00.10) i was up an about no problem. Yet after my daughters caecerion I was bed ridden for 3 days and took me over 3 weeks to feel 'normal' again. As you say, each situation is different, but if I was to have more kids I would go the natural route without a doubt! Whatever you choose or have to do under doctors instructions, remember that you will be a MUM afterwards and that is what it is about! So rewarding!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098604292442392707.post-86993803184312800492013-02-26T21:48:58.019+02:002013-02-26T21:48:58.019+02:00I have 4 children,each entered my world a little d...I have 4 children,each entered my world a little differently: my oldest is a step-child, followed by one 'natural', one vertical caesar(high risk breech, etc), and one lateral c-section, so I speak from experience that you are equally a mother no matter how your children are born, and that includes adoption. There are good reasons to favor one method in general, but it all comes down to what works for you and your child. Thanks for saying it again, especially new moms need to hear what matters is love and care, not which route they take. highest shelfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01025703609253438300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098604292442392707.post-4233930738518600732013-02-26T16:12:11.344+02:002013-02-26T16:12:11.344+02:00Helene - I think I need you as my birthing partner...Helene - I think I need you as my birthing partner - brought tears to my eyes - you are so apt and really spoke to me in this - thank you special friend - a powerful message needed at the beginning of this journey... much love and hugs xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4098604292442392707.post-18192377974443671322013-02-26T00:19:03.553+02:002013-02-26T00:19:03.553+02:00What a honest account of giving birth - I think th...What a honest account of giving birth - I think that is sometimes needed more than a positive one, because the end product is your amazing miracle newborn...no matter how they came into this world <br />Amen to happy mommies = happy babies :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08859352920756590012noreply@blogger.com